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Competition and animosity among siblings.
Introduction
Sibling relationships in humans are often marked by feelings of love as well as hate for each other, providing a quintessential example of ambivalent relationships. In fact, relative to other types of familial violence (e.g., spousal and parent–child violence), sibling violence is the most common form of nonlethal familial violence (Wiehe 1997). Although this conflict and animosity between siblings can be quite intense at times, it is typically considered to be a normal part of development (Cicirelli 1995). As such, sibling conflict has been linked to both potential benefits and costs in terms of psychosocial and cognitive development. For example, potential benefits identified include the development of greater empathy and perspective taking (Dunn and Brown 1994) as well as practice with social negotiation leading to greater conflict resolution and problem-solving abilities (Campione-Barr and...
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Hehman, J. (2016). Sibling Conflict. In: Weekes-Shackelford, V., Shackelford, T., Weekes-Shackelford, V. (eds) Encyclopedia of Evolutionary Psychological Science. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_3040-1
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