Definition
Sexual activity in which an individual uses their mouth to stimulate the genitals of their long-term partner in an effort to retain that partner.
Introduction
People in long-term relationships perform a diverse array of behaviors, the motivation for which developed over evolutionary history, to minimize the likelihood of their partner’s infidelity. Oral sex performed on a long-term partner may be one such behavior, as reviewed below.
Oral Sex as Mate Retention
Humans may have evolved psychological mechanisms that motivate the performance of “mate retention” – behaviors that lessen the risk of partner infidelity and desertion (see Mate Retention). Buss (1988) identified 104 acts of mate retention, and these were later grouped into two superordinate “domains”: Cost-Inflicting mate retention behaviors and Benefit-Provisioning mate retention behaviors. Behaviors in the Cost-Inflicting domain reduce the risk of partner infidelity by lowering a partner’s self-esteem, thereby...
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Sela, Y., Pham, M.N. (2016). Oral Sex as Mate Retention. In: Weekes-Shackelford, V., Shackelford, T., Weekes-Shackelford, V. (eds) Encyclopedia of Evolutionary Psychological Science. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-16999-6_143-1
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