Skip to main content

Love Reveals Persons as Irreplaceable

  • Chapter
Love and Its Objects
  • 195 Accesses

Abstract

It is a deeply held intuition that our loved ones are irreplaceable. Assuming there is more to this than sentimentality, how are we to understand this philosophically? One straightforward suggestion is that we see our loved ones as having a set of characteristics only they possess and in virtue of which they are unique and therefore irreplaceable. If we push this thought to a radical conclusion by saying that if that were the case we should be able to love an exact replica of our loved one, many would find the idea at best disquieting, if not repugnant. It doesn’t seem to capture the sense of irreplaceability that the intuition wants to illuminate.1

This is a preview of subscription content, log in via an institution to check access.

Access this chapter

Chapter
USD 29.95
Price excludes VAT (USA)
  • Available as PDF
  • Read on any device
  • Instant download
  • Own it forever
eBook
USD 39.99
Price excludes VAT (USA)
  • Available as EPUB and PDF
  • Read on any device
  • Instant download
  • Own it forever
Softcover Book
USD 54.99
Price excludes VAT (USA)
  • Compact, lightweight edition
  • Dispatched in 3 to 5 business days
  • Free shipping worldwide - see info
Hardcover Book
USD 54.99
Price excludes VAT (USA)
  • Durable hardcover edition
  • Dispatched in 3 to 5 business days
  • Free shipping worldwide - see info

Tax calculation will be finalised at checkout

Purchases are for personal use only

Institutional subscriptions

Preview

Unable to display preview. Download preview PDF.

Unable to display preview. Download preview PDF.

Bibliography

  • Cockbum, D. (1990) Other Human Beings (London: Macmillan).

    Book  Google Scholar 

  • Cordner, C. (2011) ‘Two Conceptions of Love in Philosophical Thought’, Sophia, 50, 315–29.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Drammond Young, E. (2012) ‘Defending Gaita’s Example of Saintly Behaviour’, Ethical Theory and Moral Practice, 15(2), 191–202.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Frankfurt, H. (2004) The Reasons of Love (Princeton, NJ: Princeton University Press).

    Google Scholar 

  • Gaita, R. (2004) A Common Humanity, Thinking About Love and Truth and Justice (London: Routledge).

    Google Scholar 

  • Gaita, R. (2000) Good and Evil: An Absolute Conception (London: Routledge).

    Google Scholar 

  • Helm, B. (2012) Love, Friendship and the Self (New York: Oxford University Press).

    Google Scholar 

  • Kolodny, N. (2003) ‘Love as Valuing a Relationship’, The Philosophical Review, 112(2), 135–89.

    Article  Google Scholar 

  • Marion, J.-L. (2012) La rigeur des choses (Paris: Flammarion).

    Google Scholar 

  • Marion, J.-L. (2007) The Erotic Phenomenon (Chicago: University of Chicago Press).

    Google Scholar 

  • Marion, J.-L. (2002) In Excess, Studies of the Saturated Phenomenon, Perspectives in Continental Philosophy No. 27 (New York: Fordham University Press).

    Google Scholar 

  • Milligan, T. (2011) Love (Durham: Acumen).

    Google Scholar 

  • Urmson, J. O. (1958) ‘Saints and Heroes’, in A. I. Melden (ed.) Essays in Moral Philosophy (Seattle and London: Washington University Press).

    Google Scholar 

Download references

Authors

Editor information

Editors and Affiliations

Copyright information

© 2014 Elizabeth Drummond Young

About this chapter

Cite this chapter

Young, E.D. (2014). Love Reveals Persons as Irreplaceable. In: Maurer, C., Milligan, T., Pacovská, K. (eds) Love and Its Objects. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9781137383310_12

Download citation

Publish with us

Policies and ethics