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This chapter discusses the recent literature1 on open non-monogamies, or non-monogamous arrangements that are known about by, at the very least, all the involved intimate partners. (This specifically excludes a consideration of the growing parallel literature on secret non-monogamies (e.g. infidelity adultery and cheating) addressed in relation to monogamy and marriage in Ziegler, Conley, Moors, Matsick, & Rubin, Monogamy, this volume.)
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Barker, M.& Langdridge, D. (Eds.) (2010). Understanding non-monogamies.New York, NY:
Routledge. Calder, G. & Beaman, L. G. (Eds.) (2014). Polygamy’s rights and wrongs: Perspectives on harm, family, and law. Vancouver, BC: UBC Press.
Sheff, E. (2013b). The polyamorists next door: Inside multiple partner relationships and families. Lanham, MD: Roman and Littlefield. Lifestyles, 8(1) (1985). Special issue on swinging. Sexualities, 9(6) (2006). Special issue on polyamory.
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Rambukkana, N. (2015). Open Non-monogamies. In: Richards, C., Barker, M.J. (eds) The Palgrave Handbook of the Psychology of Sexuality and Gender. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9781137345899_15
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