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The Problem of ‘Attachment’: The ‘Detached’ Parent

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Parenting Culture Studies

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This essay …

  • Explores how, and why, the detachment (and attachment) of parents and children has become a social problem.

  • Looks at the claimsmaking undertaken by a particular group of advocates (attachment parents) to explore how this has been formulated as a problem in political, medical, and lay terms.

  • Draws on earlier chapters, to look at the intersections between ‘attachment’ and ‘intensive’ parenting, looking at the ways in which various forms of care are naturalized (and gendered).

  • Looks at how parenting styles have become increasingly ‘tribalized’, with negative social implications.

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Further reading

  • Bobel, C. (2002) The Paradox of Natural Mothering (Philadelphia: Temple University Press).

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  • This is a useful study, based on research with ‘natural mothers’ in the US, looking at how their style of motherhood intersects with a trend towards ‘ecological living’ and ‘voluntary simplicity’.

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  • Burman, E. (2008) Deconstructing Developmental Psychology (London and New York: Routledge).

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  • Especially Chapter 7, ‘Bonds of Love — dilemmas of attachment’. This book is an excellent critique of the psychological literature around attachment, along similar lines to both Bruer and Kagan.

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  • Faircloth, C. (2013) Militant Lactivism? Attachment Parenting and Intensive Motherhood in the UK and France (Oxford and New York: Berghahn Books). Especially Chapters 6–8, on ‘Accounting for full-term breastfeeding’. This book profiles my research with attachment mothers in the UK and France, looking at how they ‘account’ for their choice to be attachment parents as a ‘natural’ one. This choice might be framed as evolutionarily ‘appropriate’, scientifically ‘optimal’, or emotionally ‘instinctive’.

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© 2014 Ellie Lee, Jennie Bristow, Charlotte Faircloth and Jan Macvarish

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Faircloth, C. (2014). The Problem of ‘Attachment’: The ‘Detached’ Parent. In: Parenting Culture Studies. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9781137304612_7

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