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Life as an Old Gay Man

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At the heart of this chapter are two aspects of human identity that are rarely joined together: homosexuality and ageing. In the earlier discussion of the gay scene, and from time to time in other chapters, I have shown that a powerful public narrative exists that portrays homosexuality in terms of youthfulness and young bodies. And for this reason, being gay is rarely associated with growing old or being old. Jeffrey Weeks was one of the first scholars to discuss the story of age segregation and ageing in the gay milieu. Writing in the early 1980s, he related how old gay men were invisible because the focus of the gay milieu was on youthfulness.1s

‘There used to be the notion that old gay men were sad and lonely but I think that has evaporated and now they are seen as no more or less sad than anyone else is.’ Chester, 71.

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  1. While Weeks was one of the first scholars to investigate it, the work of the North American scholar, Raymond Berger, is regarded as definitive. See J. Weeks ‘The problems of older Homosexuals’ in J. Hart and D. Richardson (eds) The Theory and Practice of Homosexuality (London: Routledge and Kegan Paul, 1981), pp. 177–84;

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Robinson, P. (2008). Life as an Old Gay Man. In: The Changing World of Gay Men. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9780230584310_9

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