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The Coming-out Stories of the Young Cohort

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In November 1982, the first case of AIDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome) was diagnosed in Australia.1 The first reported death was in July 1983.2 It took medical researchers in the West until 1984 to determine that the disease was caused by a retrovirus that attacked the body’s immune system, the Human Immuno-deficiency virus (HIV). Rates of HIV infection peaked in Australia in the mid-1980s, rising from fewer than 500 diagnoses in 1984 to approximately 1,800 in 1985 and 1,600 in 1986, and then again in 1987, after which there was a gradual decline, until in 2000 the annual number of new HIV diagnoses was around 763.3 The overwhelming majority of deaths from AIDS in Australia has been among gay men.4

‘Dad was a bit cool when I came out but it didn’t change anything.’ Travis, 38.

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Robinson, P. (2008). The Coming-out Stories of the Young Cohort. In: The Changing World of Gay Men. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9780230584310_4

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