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Chastity and ‘Rumour’d Heavens’: ‘Woman’ and The Double Message of Sexual Love

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Women and Sexual Love in the British Novel, 1740–1880
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What is a woman? If you have to ask the question, you might say, you will probably never find an answer; or, as Simone de Beauvoir has said, in asking the question we have already suggested an answer, since the very fact of having asked is significant.1 I may as well confess at once that I will not answer it, that in fact there is no answer to this question which obsessed nineteenth-century writers. Another way of putting this refusal is to observe that there are too many answers which cluster around this question, too many hopes for certainty and, finally, too many representations, a plenitude of forms and values which constitute an impenetrable thicket of meanings. Moreover, there are thickets in at least two forests: one we might label essentialist, in which the term draws its definition from immutable, ultimately biological conditions, and the other constructivist, in which no a priori trees are presumed to exist in the forest at all.2 This is not to say, however, that there are no paths through this density. One path is to observe a connected series of representations, such as are constituted by those novels we will examine.

Woman deck’d

With saintly honours, chaste and good

Coventry Patmore, ‘The Angel in the House’

What rumour’d heavens are these

Which not a poet sings

O, Unknown Eros?

Coventry Patmore, ‘The Unknown Eros’

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Weisser, S.O. (1997). Chastity and ‘Rumour’d Heavens’: ‘Woman’ and The Double Message of Sexual Love. In: Women and Sexual Love in the British Novel, 1740–1880. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9780230377349_2

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