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What is the problem of sexual love? The very concept of sexual love is an impure category, if the reader will pardon the pun: it is neither inclusive of all representations and practices of sexuality, nor is it always fully synonymous with an idealized mythos of romantic love. Rather, sexual love as desire, act or affect is constituted by the highly charged intersection of sexuality and romantic love, a space where gender is imagined and enacted. What Havelock Ellis called the ‘problem’ of modern Western society clearly has enormous implications for understanding the construction of gender in our culture. The focus of my study will be on representations of the relation between women and sexual love in four major British novelists because these works have revealed a particularly vexed relation between love and sexuality, between definitions of womanhood and the way these are constructed through the deadly serious play of sexual love.

And now that the problem of religion has practically been settled, and the problem of labour has at last been placed on a practical foundation, the question of sex … stands before the coming generations as the chief problem for solution.

Havelock Ellis, ‘General Preface’, Studies in the Psychology of Sex, 1897

Sex is still a problem because whatever the current sexological steps to orgasmic happiness, at a more fundamental level many of the ideologies surrounding ‘sex’ have remained unchanged over the last hundred years…. Above all, sex remains the endorsement of gender.

Lynne Segal, ‘Sensual Uncertainty, or Why the Clitoris is not Enough’, Sex and Love: New Thoughts on Old Contradictions, 1983

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Weisser, S.O. (1997). Sexual Possibilities and Impossibilities. In: Women and Sexual Love in the British Novel, 1740–1880. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1057/9780230377349_1

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