Discovering a Voice: 1992

Abstract

As is characteristic of Totagadde, all four index families have relatives in urban areas. Kinship relationships provide entrées throughout the world while preserving a sense of family. Daughters-in-law have gained ascendency over their mothers-in-law. Elders determined to maintain their power discover autocracy leads to rebellion. Mothers take pride in their urban-employed children and feel especially useful when a daughter or daughter-in-law works, as then they have a purpose for their visits. The increased respect for autonomy has extended to marital options. Women are discovering their voices, and in doing so are generating changes throughout Totagadde society. Educational options, professional careers, discretion in ritual observance, decreased stigmatization of widowhood, and marital choice suggest that the move toward self-expression for women is having a profound impact.