Abstract
This chapter explores the social problem of child protection in disputed custody cases, examining the plight of women facing biased courts favoring males in child custody decisions. I focus on cases disputed by fathers with histories of family violence and child abuse. The methodology used is unique both in terms of data and analyses. The data used are from reader commentary on the Ms. Magazine Blog article focusing on the punishment of abused women in family courts and child custody loss. I participated in the Ms. Magazine blog and there were 59 bloggers who responded. The analysis examines the discourses of responding bloggers using the Cultural Studies approach to reading and interpreting the “texts.” Findings are blog responses that point to mothers who have experienced a family court system that often ignores evidence of domestic violence when making child custody decisions. These blog responses provide a means to explore the tools used by family courts including Parental Alienation Syndrome and its derivatives, gag orders, use of inept experts, and an embrace of androcentric thinking, all supported by mainstream media’s ignoring these biased procedures. The Cultural Studies approach to reading and interpreting the “text” of the Ms. Magazine blog responses on the abuse of mothers and children by family courts provides a window into how Ms. Magazine readers view the issue of child custody and the involvement of bloggers in the custody battles.
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To this end, Mann states that “concepts” are abstractions that help us to categorize or group similar individual features of social reality, and that “discourses” are historical ways of specifying knowledge that links concepts into ideas that enable writing, speaking, thinking and acting. She adds, “Theories are developed discourses that offer a general account of how a range of phenomena are systematically interconnected” (pp. 8–9).
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Amy Kesselman et al. (2008), suggest feminism “refers to the belief that women have been historically subordinate to men as well as to the commitment to working for freedom for women in all aspects of social life” (p. 11).
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Bartlow, R. (2014). Punishing Abused Women: A Retrospective on a Ms. Magazine Blog. In: Farris, D., Davis, M., Compton, D. (eds) Illuminating How Identities, Stereotypes and Inequalities Matter through Gender Studies. Springer, Dordrecht. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-94-017-8718-5_10
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