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The Complexity of Parenthood in Modern Societies

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The Future of Motherhood in Western Societies

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Parenthood in modern societies is complex. Institutional structures and social policies help to reconcile between work and family life. Five welfare state regimes are distinguished. The Nordic countries represent the social democratic type: an elaborate system of public work and family policies has gender equality and the wellbeing of children as an important goal. Austria, Belgium, France, Germany and the Netherlands form the conservative corporatist type where the family is important, traditional gender roles are persistent, social policy is less individualized. Southern European countries form the Mediterranean type; they have few public provisions, gender roles are traditional and family problems are solved privately. The liberal type (UK and Ireland) views servicing as a market activity. Government involvement is limited; work/family arrangements are seen as individual responsibilities and left to market forces. The post-communist type used to have a broad range of public policies to support families but provisions decline after the transition. Low and late fertility is perceived to be related with general changes in the economy (rising levels of education and labour market participation, more prosperity) and culture (individualisation, exclusive and sensitive motherhood, traditional versus modern motherhood). In individualistic models of motherhood tasks are often equally shared. This may open the way to fatherhood as personal expression. Institutional arrangements do matter when it comes to the question how complicated it is to combine parenthood with paid work. Institutional support for parenthood is badly needed, as children are the promise and material for the future of society. The socio-economic price of having children should therefore decrease.

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Notes

  1. 1.

    This chapter is partly based on the research project transitions: Gender, Parenthood and the Changing European Workplace, funded by the European Union carried out in 8 European countries between 2003 and 2006.

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    Recent research by Rijken (2009) however shows that the decision making process between partners about the timing of having a child is rather implicit.

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van Doorne-Huiskes, A., Doorten, I. (2011). The Complexity of Parenthood in Modern Societies. In: Beets, G., Schippers, J., te Velde, E. (eds) The Future of Motherhood in Western Societies. Springer, Dordrecht. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-90-481-8969-4_8

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