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This chapter outlines a systemic safety methodology for safe relationship therapy with couples, parents and families where physical violence is of concern. A step-by-step guide is offered here for the first time in publication. This systemic approach to safety in family relationships was developed over 20 years in the Reading, UK, ‘Safer Families’ family violence intervention service and is grounded in relevant theory and research.
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Sammut Scerri, C., Vetere, A., Abela, A., Cooper, J. (2017). How to Help Stop the Violence: Using a Safety Methodology Across the Life Span. In: Intervening After Violence. Focused Issues in Family Therapy. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-57789-0_3
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