The Gendering of Sexuality

Abstract

The principle topic of this chapter is to examine how men’s bisexuality is gendered. Using the concept of homohysteria, defined as the cultural aversion to being socially perceived as gay, it examines how homohysteria influences men’s gendered behaviors. Central to this process is the “one-time rule of homosexuality, where same-same sexual behaviors are equated with gay identity, and the possibility of bisexual desire is erased. The chapter provides a stage model of homohysteria, discussing three distinct cultural zeitgeists in the modern era: homoerasure, homohysteria, and inclusivity. The positive effects of decreasing homohysteria, including an expansion of acceptable behaviors for men and the erosion of the one-time rule of homosexuality is then examined. Finally, the chapter discusses how this results in decreased biphobia and changing sexual identities among young people.