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Parenthood is undoubtedly one of the most meaningful and significant events in life, and carries with it a shift in status, roles, and identities. This chapter focuses on parents’ experience of personal growth, that is, positive psychological change comprising changes in self-perception, interpersonal relationships, and priorities, which may be triggered by the multiple stresses and demands that come with the transition to parenthood. It considers both normative parenthood to a single baby and special circumstances, such as delivering twins or preterm babies or being a single mother by choice. Based on a review of recent literature from around the world, the issues discussed include: the association between stress and personal growth; diverse contributors to personal growth, including demographic characteristics, personal resources (e.g., self-esteem, optimism, attachment orientation, perception of the event, coping modes), and external resources (e.g., support provided by grandparents, the couple relationship); and the development of personal growth over time. The chapter concludes with theoretical implications and recommendations for future research.
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Taubman – Ben-Ari, O. (2019). Blossoming and Growing in the Transition to Parenthood. In: Taubman – Ben-Ari, O. (eds) Pathways and Barriers to Parenthood. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-24864-2_16
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