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The Initial Phase of the Argumentative Discussions Between Parents and Children

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This chapter examines the initial phase of parent–child argumentative discussions during mealtime. The conceptual tool adopted for the analysis is based on the pragma-dialectical ideal model of a critical discussion (van Eemeren & Grootendorst, 2004). The types of issues leading parents and children to engage in argumentative discussions during mealtime as well as the contribution that parents and children provide to the inception of argumentation are described and discussed. The analysis of the initial phase of parent–child argumentative discussions also considers the role played by the specificity of the parent–child relationship and the distinctive features of the activity of family mealtime for the beginning of an argumentative discussion. Exemplary argumentative sequences that bring to light the results obtained through the qualitative analysis of a larger corpus of argumentative discussions between parents and children are presented and discussed.

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Notes

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    In Italian, the word “perché” is used both to ask “why” and as a response, like the English word “because.” In attempting to identify all Why-questions asked by children to their parents, I did not consider each instance of “perché” used by children when speaking with their parents but only those with an interrogative function.

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    For a detailed study on the differences between argumentation and explanation, see also Rigotti and Greco Morasso (2009) and Snoeck Henkemans (1999, 2001).

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Bova, A. (2019). The Initial Phase of the Argumentative Discussions Between Parents and Children. In: The Functions of Parent-Child Argumentation. Palgrave Macmillan, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-20457-0_3

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