Problems with the Transition to Parenthood

Perceived Responsibility for Restrictions and Losses and the Experience of Injustice
  • Barbara Reichle
  • Leo Montada
Part of the Critical Issues in Social Justice book series (CISJ)

Abstract

Traditionally, the birth of the first child is considered a positive life event—assuming it occurs under normal circumstances. But, as has been shown already by early research on transition to parenthood (e.g., LeMasters, 1957), the critical potential of life events is not limited to negative events. Sociological research and psychological research have identified various more or less serious problems that occur as a consequence of first childbirth: for mothers, it has been shown to be associated with depression and dysphoric states (see Hopkins, Marcus, & Campbell, 1984, for an overview). Many first-time mothers report role conflict and role strain, even more so when they are employed (e.g., Mercer, 1986). Often, a decline in role satisfaction is observed (e.g., Cowan et al., 1985). Many first-time mothers suffer from unfulfilled expectations and develop negative feelings about their spouses (e.g., LaRossa & LaRossa, 1981; Ruble, Fleming, Hackel, & Stangor, 1988). Compared with their husbands, the decline in marital satisfaction of first-time mothers is faster, and the drop is larger (e.g., Belsky, Spanier, & Rovine, 1983; Cowan et al., 1985; Engfer, Gavranidou, & Heinig, 1988). Less negative effects have been reported for first-time fathers. Depressed mood of rather transient nature (Pedersen, Zaslow, Cain, Suwalsky, & Rabinovich, 1987), strain (S. Feldman, 1987), a sense of crisis (Hobbs & Cole, 1976; Russell, 1974), and a decline in marital satisfaction occur among first-time fathers as among first-time mothers, but less frequently and less pronounced.

Keywords

Negative Emotion Emotional Response Marital Satisfaction Postpartum Depression Marital Relationship 
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Authors and Affiliations

  • Barbara Reichle
    • 1
  • Leo Montada
    • 1
  1. 1.Department of PsychologyTrier UniversityTrierGermany

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