Gender and Conversational Dynamics

  • Lynn Smith-Lovin
  • Dawn T. Robinson


Much of what is important in social life is accomplished through talk. Through conversation, we form acquaintances, request and receive services, conduct business, and negotiate family affairs. In such situations, language use creates a social identity. Conversational styles that reflect our group membership and social position serve to maintain those identities in social interaction. They represent the micro-level mechanisms through which structural-level inequality and differentiation are accomplished in everyday interaction. On the other hand, conversational patterns that contrast with those that are expected from group members may be the mechanisms for social mobility (e.g., leadership acquisition or loss). Therefore, language use and conversational style may reinforce a sense of stereotype, or can alleviate stereotypic beliefs (Jupp, Roberts, & Cook-Gumpertz, 1982, p. 234).


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