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In this chapter, I examine the relationship of exchange and commitment. Before doing so, however, it is necessary to note that exchange, like other overused terms such as projection and love, challenges our communicative skills to the maximum. Of projection Murray (1951) observed, “If projection means everything it means nothing” (p. 13). In a similar vein, it took me an entire chapter (Murstein, 1988) to delineate the various ways in which love was used, and I concluded that there was no simple definition that could cover its myriad meanings.
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Murstein, B.I. (1999). The Relationship of Exchange and Commitment. In: Adams, J.M., Jones, W.H. (eds) Handbook of Interpersonal Commitment and Relationship Stability. Perspectives on Individual Differences. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4615-4773-0_12
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