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The Development of Possible Selves During Adulthood

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Handbook of Adult Development

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Possible selves show dramatic change in form and function over the lifespan. In the present review, the ideal self-image (the self as one would like to be) is examined first. Developmental changes in the discrepancy between the real (or current) self and the ideal self are reviewed. Attention is given next to whether or not a high ideal self is adaptive for individuals at different life stages. Age-related changes in the content of the ideal self-image, as revealed in participants’ own ideal self-descriptions, are then examined. The nightmare self (the self as one does not want to be) is also considered. Marked changes with age in the content of this possible self are reviewed. Other possible selves such as the moral (or ought) self and the fantasy self (the self as one would like to be if anything were possible) are briefly considered and the dearth of research on developmental changes in these selves is noted.

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Bybee, J.A., Wells, Y.V. (2002). The Development of Possible Selves During Adulthood. In: Demick, J., Andreoletti, C. (eds) Handbook of Adult Development. The Springer Series in Adult Development and Aging. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4615-0617-1_14

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