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Psychologically Flexible Self-Acceptance

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The Strength of Self-Acceptance

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The term “self-acceptance” sounds simple but anyone trying to define it quickly realizes that it is not. What does “acceptance” mean? What is being “accepted?” Who is the “self” we are speaking of? Is the “self” doing the acceptance? Or is the “self” being accepted?

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Jeffcoat, T., Hayes, S.C. (2013). Psychologically Flexible Self-Acceptance. In: Bernard, M. (eds) The Strength of Self-Acceptance. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4614-6806-6_5

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