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Gender Differences in Aggressive Tendencies

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Partner Violence

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Scholars of partner violence hold polarized and contradicting views on the role of gender in partner violence. Some argue that in intimate relationships, it is largely the man who displays violent behavior against his female partner. Others claim that violence in intimate relationships is used significantly, albeit unequally, by both genders. Both parties in the controversy do agree that women are hurt at much higher rates than men. The first part of the chapter reviews the arguments of both parties in the controversy, their empirical basis, and the attempts to reconcile them. It concludes that although gender is commonly perceived as having a major role in the problem, accumulating empirical evidence indicates that it is not a central factor in the etiology and use of partner violence in the general population. Subject to this conclusion, the chapter examines the reasons behind this erroneous perception of the role of gender in partner violence as well as its outcomes. Whereas the first part of the chapter concentrates on the controversy, the second part focuses on its origins. It is argued that this is not a disagreement over facts but a paradigmatic cleavage: there are major differences in how the parties perceive the nature of the problem (ontology), how the problem should be identified (epistemology), and how it is to be examined (methodology) and judged. It is argued that the controversy between the parties stems from major perceptional differences.

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Winstok, Z. (2013). Gender Differences in Aggressive Tendencies. In: Partner Violence. The Springer Series on Human Exceptionality. Springer, New York, NY. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4614-4568-5_1

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