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Happily ever after? The consequences of acceptance

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During the postwar period marriage was considered woman’s prime, if not only, career choice. While this view was reinforced by the romantic fiction of the period, other fiction written by women chose to question the bland assumptions behind the ‘happily ever after’ ending. Their ambivalence about such happy endings was centred on the woman’s choice of husband rather than on marriage itself.

‘I married you,’ he said slowly and clearly, ‘because you are going to be extremely beautiful, which means for me that you will be a pleasure to see, a delight to be with, and because, possessing you, I shall be envied by others.’1

… the tragedy of marriage is not that it fails to assure woman the promised happiness … but that it mutilates her; it dooms her to repetition and routine.2

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Baker, N. (1989). Happily ever after? The consequences of acceptance. In: Happily Ever After?. Palgrave, London. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-349-20288-1_3

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