Disorganised, controlling and unresolved patterns

Abstract

The insecure disorganised attachment pattern is associated with those who have suffered and failed to resolve losses and traumas. The traumas vary widely from physical abuse to being parented by someone suffering a serious psychiatric illness or alcohol addiction. The disorganised pattern is frequently met by those working with behaviourally very disturbed children. Perhaps a little confusing at first sight, the disorganised-unresolved classification can be superimposed on one of the three organised attachment patterns of secure, avoidant and ambivalent, whichever ‘best fits’. This is meant to suggest that, when the individual is not immediately caught up in their fear and distress, an underpinning ‘organised’ attachment style operates. However, at times of stress and emotional low points, the disorganised interactional pattern predominates, adversely affecting relationships and the ability to cope.