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Changing the Playing (or Reading) Field: Reconceptualizing Motherhood Through Humorous Parenting Texts

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In June 2012, Star magazine ran a magazine cover in which celebrity mothers holding their young children were captured, unbeknownst to them, in photographs. The headline running across these photos reads: ‘Star Report Card: Best and Worst Moms!’1 Below this are questions meant to entice the reader to purchase the magazine to find out more about how these celebrity moms measure up to one another: ‘Who chooses booze over storytime? Who lets her kid smoke? Who hasn’t seen her son for months?’

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Ames, M., Burcon, S. (2016). Changing the Playing (or Reading) Field: Reconceptualizing Motherhood Through Humorous Parenting Texts. In: How Pop Culture Shapes the Stages of a Woman’s Life. Palgrave Macmillan, London. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-137-56618-8_8

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