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There is little research to date on the role of sibling relationships in mitigating attachment-related trauma. This paper is a clinical case study that illustrates the therapeutic process involved in working with siblings as well as the parent–child dyad, following a history of intra-familial trauma. We present an attachment-based treatment approach that recognizes and makes clinical use of a secure sibling attachment system. The process of facilitating therapeutic change in children with an insecure attachment style in relation to their parents, contrasted with a relatively secure sibling attachment system, is discussed. The implications of improved parent–child relationships on family outcomes, as well as on sibling relationships, are also explored.
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The term “avoidant” will be used throughout the paper to refer to avoidant, dismissing, or dismissing-avoidant attachment.
For this case, the first author (M.F.) was the therapist, working under the supervision of the second author (R.M.).
The concept of sharing “by proxy” refers to the phenomenon of a child being more likely, in the initial stages of therapy, to share traumatic memories on behalf of their sibling, instead of about their own experience.
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Foroughe, M.F., Muller, R.T. Attachment-Based Intervention Strategies in Family Therapy with Survivors of Intra-Familial Trauma: A Case Study. J Fam Viol 29, 539–548 (2014). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10896-014-9607-4
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