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Explaining the Flight of Cupid’s Arrow: A Spatial Random Utility Model of Partner Choice

Pour expliquer le vol de la flèche de Cupidon: un modèle d’utilité aléatoire du choix du partenaire

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Spatial homogamy may be defined as follows: anyone may be attracted to anyone else, but near candidates are more attractive than distant candidates. In this article, we propose a model of partner choice, where homogamy is defined in terms of spatial, demographic, socioeconomic and cultural similarity. A spatial choice model using random utility theory is formulated, taking into account a relaxation of the independence from the irrelevant alternatives property, as spatial alternatives are not independent of one another. We model partner choice given the characteristics of the chosen partner and a choice set of alternatives, using unique micro data on all new cohabiters in the Netherlands, linked to other relevant data sets. The model takes the spatial locations of potential candidates within a choice set into account, including an indicator for the spatial similarity between alternatives. We find that spatial homogamy is a vital component of partner matching, aside from and adding to the spatial effects in demographic, socioeconomic and cultural homogamy. Given a choice set of partners, the highest likelihood of a match occurs with a person who is born and lives near by, who is close in age, is in the same life stage and has the same marital status, who has the same educational and income level and the same labour market status, who speaks the same dialect and lives in a culturally similar residential area. The distance effect is most pronounced for those individuals with lower levels of education and those living in rural areas.

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L’homogamie spatiale peut être définie de la manière suivante : n’importe quelle personne peut être attirée par une autre, mais les candidats les plus proches sont plus attractifs que les candidats plus lointains. Dans cet article, un modèle du choix du partenaire est proposé, dans lequel l’homogamie est définie en termes de similarités spatiale, démographique, socio-économique et culturelle. Un modèle spatial de choix basé sur la théorie de l’utilité aléatoire est proposé, tenant compte d’un assouplissement de l’indépendance par rapport aux alternatives non pertinentes puisque les alternatives spatiales ne sont pas indépendantes l’une de l’autre. Le choix du partenaire est modélisé en tenant compte des caractéristiques du partenaire choisi et d’un ensemble d’alternatives de choix, en utilisant une base de données individuelles concernant tous les nouveaux cohabitants aux Pays-Bas appariée à d’autres bases de données pertinentes. Le modèle considère les localisations spatiales des partenaires potentiels parmi les alternatives de choix à prendre en compte, en incluant un indicateur de similitude spatiale entre les alternatives. Les résultats montrent que l’homogamie spatiale est une composante fondamentale de la recherche de partenaire s’ajoutant à l’impact spatial de l’homogamie démographique, socio-économique et culturelle. Etant donné un choix de partenaires, le partenaire qui aura la probabilité la plus élevée d’être choisi est celui qui est né et vit à proximité, ayant un âge semblable, qui se trouve dans la même étape du cycle de vie et qui a le même statut matrimonial, qui a les mêmes niveaux d’instruction, de revenus et de statut sur le marché du travail, qui parle la même langue et qui vit dans une zone résidentielle culturellement semblable. L’effet de la distance est encore plus accentué pour les individus ayant un faible niveau d’instruction et pour ceux vivant en zone rurale.

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Notes

  1. Statistics Netherlands includes the following variables pertaining to the two persons living at one address in their imputation model: age difference, average age, degree of urbanization, number of unmarried persons at the address and the age of the oldest person combined with the gender of the youngest person. When the imputation probability crosses a threshold value, the two persons are classified as two households. When the threshold is not crossed, the two persons are classified as a single household. About 10 % of all household positions are imputed, while the household positions of 46 % of all unmarried couples without children are imputed. The procedures are described in Harmsen and Israëls (2003) and Israëls and Harmsen (1999). Imputation was only involved in determining household positions, and not in further data linking.

  2. As the clogit procedure in Stata deletes incomplete cases, those with missing values at either variable are excluded from the analysis. About half of the missing values pertain to those born abroad, as they have no Dutch birthplace. An analysis of cases with missing values shows that these individuals more often lived abroad the year before cohabitation or marriage, currently more often live in urban areas, are a bit older, slightly more often divorced and they have studied at an institute of higher education less often. The final data set consists of 144,316 partners. To test model stability, several random samples were taken; results were stable throughout.

  3. A likelihood ratio test was used to test the improvement in log likelihood and found that the fit of each additional model improved significantly compared to the previous model.

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The major part of this work was conducted while the first author was at the Population Research Centre of the University of Groningen. The authors gratefully acknowledge the funding from the Stockholm University SIMSAM Node for Demographic Research in the person of Gunnar Andersson for the final phase of the project. We thank the reviewers and the editor of EJP for helpful comments.

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Table 2 Descriptive statistics of partner characteristics, N = 144,263
Table 3 Descriptive statistics of homogamy variables, N = 144,236

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Haandrikman, K., van Wissen, L.J.G. Explaining the Flight of Cupid’s Arrow: A Spatial Random Utility Model of Partner Choice. Eur J Population 28, 417–439 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10680-012-9260-7

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