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Collective Sex Environments Without the Sex? Insights from the BDSM Community

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    Brad J. Sagarin, Ellen M. Lee, Jennifer M. Erickson, Kevin G. Casey & Joy S. Pawirosetiko

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Sagarin, B.J., Lee, E.M., Erickson, J.M. et al. Collective Sex Environments Without the Sex? Insights from the BDSM Community. Arch Sex Behav 48, 63–67 (2019). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-018-1252-1

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