Journal of Abnormal Child Psychology

, Volume 47, Issue 12, pp 1995–2005 | Cite as

Too Much Too Soon?: Borderline Personality Disorder Symptoms and Romantic Relationships in Adolescent Girls

  • Sophie A. LazarusEmail author
  • Sophia Choukas-Bradley
  • Joseph E. Beeney
  • Amy L. Byrd
  • Vera Vine
  • Stephanie D. Stepp


Despite the centrality of adult romantic relationships to the conceptualization of borderline personality disorder (BPD), little is known about the earlier development of this interdependency during adolescence. Thus, we examined the co-development of romantic relationships and BPD symptoms from ages 15 to 19 in a large urban sample of girls (N = 2310) in the Pittsburgh Girls Study. We had two major aims. First, we sought to examine associations between BPD symptoms and romantic relationship involvement (number of partners, importance of relationship) and relational insecurity (concerns about infidelity and tactics to maintain relationship) during adolescence. Second, we investigated mutual influences and temporal precedence of BPD symptoms and four specific romantic relationship characteristics (perceived support and antagonism, verbal and physical aggression) during adolescence using latent growth curve models (LGCMs). Results indicated that BPD symptoms were associated with increased involvement in romantic relationships and heightened relational insecurity across adolescence. Furthermore, higher BPD symptoms at age 15 predicted increases in antagonism, verbal aggression, and physical aggression across ages 15 to 19. Conversely, perceptions of higher levels of relationship support at age 15 predicted steeper increases in BPD symptoms across ages 15 to 19, suggesting a potential negative influence of early involvement in close romantic relationships. These findings demonstrate the reciprocal nature of romantic relationship functioning and BPD symptoms during adolescence and suggest novel prevention targets for youth at risk for BPD.


Borderline personality disorder Romantic relationships Adolescence Dating Inter-partner violence 



This research was supported by grants from the National Institute of Mental Health (MH056630, MH08671 and MH018269) and the National Institute on Drug Abuse (DA012237).

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Conflict of Interest

The authors declare that they have no conflict of interest.

Ethical Approval

Approval for all study procedures was obtained from the University of Pittsburgh Institutional Review Board.

Informed Consent

Written informed consent from the caregiver and verbal assent from the child were obtained prior to data collection.


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Authors and Affiliations

  1. 1.Department of Psychiatry and Behavioral HealthThe Ohio State University Wexner Medical CenterColumbusUSA
  2. 2.Department of PsychologyUniversity of PittsburghPittsburghUSA
  3. 3.Department of PsychiatryUniversity of PittsburghPittsburghUSA

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